Does Love call Action to support its Claims?

What if someone told you I LOVE YOU! and continued to do things that were totally contrary to their confession. When you needed them the most they were not available and discarded the importance of your situation at hand. Their unloving acts if put on a scale continued to outweigh their loving words towards you. With all this said you start to come to the realization " How can he or she say to me I love you and continue to treat me with no respect whatsoever?" Well if this is occurring in your personal life you must redefine what love is and how it's suppose to look like, how you might ask, through the word of God. There is a definition out there of Love which the world, the media and those who live by their own rules and regulations have embedded in our thinking and its time we expose it for what it truly is, a convenient and selfish way to love which eliminates self sacrifice and commitment to the individual we decide to make a part of our lives. We must understand that love is a verb, an action word and it demands action from the participant. Yes emotions and feelings are a part of love but at times they cannot be trusted, only the commitment we make will fuel our love and allow it to reach places that we never imagined possible.